I Still Do

Last Sunday (6/6/10) was our 7th year anniversary. There were a million and one things that I actually wanted us to do but in the end we just managed to have a quick dinner and went to No Black Tie for a show, and even that we didn’t get to stay till the end coz Greg had to work the next day. So I thought we’ll go to somewhere special for a romantic dinner so I actually spent almost the whole day looking up on the www. for somewhere to go. I did narrow it down to 3 places but still couldn’t decide till he came home from his base check that evening, that would be at around 8pm… :-| Then I saw an update from one of my friend in FB, that Rozz Ritzmann will be singing in NBT and I know that she quite good. So I thought that’s nice, we could go there after dinner.. But then my friend told me that we have to be there by 10pm for the show… Which means we had to have quite a quick dinner.

So after Greg picked me up we drove down to town and ended up in Nero Vivo (where Bijan used to be) for dinner. Luckily the food was good. Greg had a steak with Foie gras on some vinegar sauce and I had Pappardelle with lamb ragu, really enjoyed that. Even the wine that the waiter recommended was good too. We did try to take photos of the food and us at the restaurant but it was too dark, can hardly see anything. After dinner we shoot off to NBT for Rozz singing her rendition of Barbra Streisand songs. She was not too bad except I must agree with my friend that her trying to sing Barbara is a little too ambitious… But then again… it is Barbara you are trying to sing dear!! Greg was taken by surprise that we were there to see a drag queen sing Barbara… :-| I wonder what he thought we were going to watch…. I would have loved to stay, she was beginning to sing my favorites but Greg was ready to go already… :-( He has to wake up very early for work the next day. So that was our impromptu anniversary date… I noticed as the years go by, our anniversaries are getting more and more… impromptu… LOL! That’s normal rite?

So a friend ask me, “7 years… How ah?”

How ah… Like in my LO, much have changed, we have definitely changed… In fact this anniversary had me thinking quite a bit… which brought me to remember something very unpleasant that happened to us 1 year ago around this time. We were so close to not celebrating this years’ anniversary… That was a very difficult time for me. So yes, 7 years is not easy… 3 kids and all. I’m surely not the same girl that stood in the church and said “I Do”. So much of tears and laughter, so much that I have lost and gained (especially around my waist and belly, they never seem to go away). Most importantly is… “I Still Do”

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Oh what a week it has been… So busy with school holidays and all and full of drama not to mention. It felt as if I didn’t breath at all! I’m actually totally knackered, thought I’ll just go collapse in bed but couldn’t sleep… :-| Maybe my brain is still running at full speed… I’m just thinking back now trying to recall what I was so busy with but I just can’t. Isn’t that weird?

Let’s see … last Sunday was our wedding anniversary (still not blogged about it yet), then was a free slimming session that my dear Joshua got for me (blog about that later), then was the dentist on the 10th (very painful) in between all that we had a broken car window, Emme has a flu (resulted in even less sleep, as if that’s possible, for me), Aiden became a mohawk (yes you read it right), picnic at park, Emme’s 3D hand and foot sculpture and Caitlyn was bitten/scratched by a crazy dog and all the usual running about so that the house continue running… Phew!!

These days I’m just surviving everyday… I would say in a blur. Most if the time I feel like a self program robot. I key in what are the out of the usual things that I need to do, incorporate it to my usual cycle and run the program… changing diapers, feed the baby, grocery shopping… in between all that someone will need a hug/fall sick/backside pain, head pain…. etc..etc… I don’t usually whine in my blog. In fact I make it a point not to in the past. I was afraid that I might be revealing too much or write something that might hurt someone’s feelings… blah,blah,blah.. Most of all I didn’t want my kids to read it (if they read my blog) in future. But lately after reading a fellow Mommy blogger’s blog, she is totally HONEST on her blog and is NOT afraid of what she blogs about. I thought to myself… “Wow! She is so brave..” When I spoke to her she just simply said, ‘ I don’t care!! It’s my blog what!’  So true… And as for the kids, she says.. then they’ll know that their Mommy is also human. **grin**

That’s also so true.. Sometimes I read some other bloggers blogs… All nice and rosey.. I thought to myself, “What!!? Are they on Prozac or what?”

So I thought about it for a long time… What kind of blogger do I want to be? Am I gonna be honest with my entries? Am I brave enough to be totally honest? Hmmm… I still don’t have the answer. But I’ve decided that I will, try.. to be as honest as possible. It’s kinda scary for me… since I know, when I’m being totally honest, there will be prices that I’ll have to pay… :-(  But like what my friend said… and if my purpose for blogging is so that Aiden, Caitlyn and now Emme can read about it later, Mommy will have to be more ‘human’… I don’t want to be like those Mommies who pose to be like a super duper Mom where everyday is rainbows, cotton candies and happy pills…

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Last week Greg and I were invited to Koh Samui, Thailand for an anniversary party of two of or very good friends. They have been together for 5 years. Every year they will celebrate their anniversary and it is usually no small event. When it is almost time for their anniversary the rest of us will be guessing what will they come up with this year, and trust me every year will be more ott then the last! :-D It’s like they are trying to outdo themselves…. not that we are complaining tho… They are just really fun and they just love to entertain. And we, just happen to be SO, SO lucky. AND this year we are just SUPER DUPER lucky I must say…. All we got was an invitation card that we are invited to celebrate their 5th anniversary. A list of things that we need to pack and our passport with a 6 months validity period. Venue is a secret! That really sent us all guessing and all excited!! :-) Some of us guessed it right, most of us only found out when we arrived at the airport. 

I must really salute them for all the time spent organizing the whole trip for all 34 ‘queens’ and 2 straight men from almost 5 countries!! Not to mention money spent!! It must have cost a BOMB! To organize a dinner party is already A LOT of work… what more to get all 36 people to an island…. You have my utmost R.E.S.P.E.C.T sista!!

So.. we all departed from Subang airport, flying Firefly to Koh Samui. And true to their style, everything was well thought of to perfection from the time that we arrived till we left the island. We stayed at Bhundhari Resort near Chaweng beach. It is a lovely resort, the signature color is pink! See… I love it already! Just perfect for a bunch of sistas!! Visit the site, you’ll see what I mean. All together our group took up 14 villas/rooms and the Presidential Suite, where all the partying will be!

On the first night we had a lovely buffet dinner by the beach and followed by some dance performance and fire dancers on the beach!! It was really a special time we had catching up with our friends who live in other countries and cities. After the fire dancers were done, the happy couple lighted up their ‘heart’ on the beach… It was just so lovely… and romantic. 

Fire Heart

Just as we thought the entertainment for the night was over and we were so ready to adjourn to the Presidential Suite to party the night away… that we were told that there was one last surprise for us… 

They arranged for all of us to set free a Hung Meng Deng (sky lantern). The host from the hotel explained to us what is a Hung Meng deng. You can read about it in detail here. It is said that when you make a wish and set free one of this sky lanterns, your wish will come true. What a truly meaningful way to celebrate this very special night. It was just SO beautiful to see all the lanterns floating up into the sky carrying all our wishes and hope to the heavens above. Sigh!! And sharing this experience with so many of my closest friends made it even more special for me. 

Thank you F & M… It was really so thoughtful and special.

After that very ‘feeling-feeling’ moment, all of us finally went up to the suite to PARTY!!! After that, all was a blur to me… :-D We really let our hair down and really had too much fun (as if there’s such a thing!) LOL!! 

Here are the pics!

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